Who worries the most?

jim worries the most on the outside but spock worries a lot internally 

Who remembers what the other one always orders at a restaurant?

spock obvi remember’s jim’s usual but i feel like jim would remember spock’s favorites too aaah!! (now i’m imagining old married spirk going out to eat and they order for each other gah)

Who reaches for the other’s hand first?

jim!! !!! !